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1. I'd come from a pretty traditional family,and I used that as a blueprint when it was time to start my own.

我来自一个相当传统的家庭，，当我开始自己的家庭时，就以此为蓝本。。

2. My wife Liz and I got married in 2001,and we had three healthy kids in rapid succession,with me in the office and her at home.

我的妻子莉兹和我于2001年结婚，，我们很快就有了三个健康的孩子，，我在办公室，她在家里。。

3. I know not all families look like this, but ours did.

我知道并不是所有家庭都像这样，但我们的家庭确实如此。。

4. And for about eight years, it was a dream.

大约八年的时间里，这像梦一样美好。。

5. Shortly after she turned 40, the kids were two, four, and six.

在她40岁生日后不久，孩子们分别是两岁，四岁和六岁。。

6. She was diagnosed with ovarian cancer.

她被诊断出患有卵巢癌。。

7. Suddenly, our focus was split between the kids and the cancer.

突然间，我们的关注点在孩子和癌症之间分裂。。

8. Unstructured playtime, surgery, healthy snacks, chemo.

无组织的玩耍时间、手术、健康零食、化疗。。

9. Somebody's got to book the bounce house for the birthday party.

有人得为生日派对预订弹跳屋。。

10. Clinical trial research.

临床试验研究。。