<< ted [2025-06-15]-A Parent’s Guide to Raising Kids After Loss ｜ Andy Laats ｜ TED >>

1. Well, first of all, I completely underestimated how hard Liz's end of the alphabet was, that N through Z.

首先，我完全低估了丽兹字母的后半段工作的难度，从N到Z。。

2. I mean, six days after she died, all three kids got sent home from school with headlights.

我的意思是，她去世六天后，三个孩子都从学校被送回家得了头虱。。

3. We'd been sleeping in the same room.

我们一直在同一个房间里睡觉。。

4. We'd been sleeping in the same room together, so it was a total mess.

我们一直在同一个房间里睡觉，因此一切都变得非常混乱。。

5. Things got more routine, but they didn't get easier.

事情变得更有规律，但并没有变得更容易。。

6. Three kids, two schools, five after-school activities, just getting everybody to where they needed to be.

三个孩子，两个学校，五个课外活动，只是让每个人到他们需要去的地方。。

7. Permission slip, sunscreen, water bottle, both shoes.

许可单，防晒霜，水瓶，两只鞋。。

8. I don't know how people did it.

我不知道人们是怎么做到的。。

9. But past the literal nitpicking and the logistics was the emotional dimension.

但是在字面上的挑剔和后勤安排之外，还有情感的维度。。

10. I mean, I knew my kids, but I didn't know them like Liz knew them.

我是说，我了解我的孩子们，但不像莉兹那样了解他们。。